I often tell my children that they have a right to say, "No," even to me.
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Setting boundaries has not only been good for my children but it’s also benefitted my entire family (my own Mami is so much better at advocating for herself now, too.)

With the holidays just around the corner, it's the perfect time to get comfortable setting boundaries for you and your familia. ⁠
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✨ As challenging as it can be, it will be liberating for us and generations to come. ⁠✨
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And, if you'd like to learn more about boundaries and how to set them with confidence, check out our A Mi Manera Workshop! Our supportive workshop will give you the tools to approach different situations respectfully and firmly. Plus, you'll learn how to truly be an advocate for your own kids so they can feel confident using their voices as well.

Then---on November 12th, I'll be holding a LIVE Integration Session where we'll dive into the workshop content a little deeper and discuss all the ways you can implement boundaries with your familia y queridos.

Equity pricing IS available---we don't want anyone to miss out on participating! You can see the details on the checkout page of our workshop.
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✨This is your friendly Thursday reminder! ✨

Years ago, my comadre was expressing frustration with her struggle to have a relationship with her own parents after her son had been born. ⁣
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She & her husband lived in the family house & her parents would frequently cross boundaries: expressing preferences between grandchildren, openly giving her & her partner unsolicited advice about how to raise & discipline their son, frequently gaslighting, & guilt-tripping them when they would attempt to set a boundary, undermining any limits attempted to be set with their son, frequently asserting non-consensual affection, & gossiping about other family members including their other kids. ⁣😓
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This created a stressful & harmful environment for her little familia. They were trying their best to be grateful, respectful, & tactful about this, but also recognized that it wasn’t healthy for their son to be in that environment, even if it was family. ⁣
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As a collective cultura, this story may feel familiar to a lot of us. Everybody’s been up in everybody’s business for generations & we’re now realizing that it doesn’t feel good, and it may not be right for our familias. ⁣
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No matter what, the well-being of our growing niñes comes before the feelings of loved ones. And grandparents, tíos, tías, primas, etc. *DO NOT* have the right to have access to our niñes, period.  As their protectors, we have the option to take access away if it gets to a point where boundaries have been violated. 
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Pero...HOW do we do this? Well, it’s hard! We need support around it, and LOTS of practice. 
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If you've been struggling to set boundaries in your familia, then I'm inviting you to enroll in our “A MI MANERA” Workshop. We discuss how to set boundaries firmly & communicate our needs with our families while preserving relationships. 

Then, on November 12th, I'll be holding a LIVE Integration session for all participants where we’ll gather and talk about the ways we can apply all this to everyday situations. No te lo piedras! ⏰

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